10 “Nice” Things That Actually Make Us Cringe
Who doesn’t like nice things, right? However, in this world of contradictions, some “nice” things can occasionally become sources of irritation. Sometimes, we should embrace these imperfections, acknowledge our emotions, bring authenticity to our interactions, and make them more genuine.
Overly Polite Emails
While politeness is appreciated, and everyone likes polite people, when it comes to emails, excessively formal or lengthy email closings can be irksome. This is when a nice thing like politeness becomes a source of irritation. Sometimes, a simple “Best regard” will suffice.
Endless Small Talk
Everyone in the world is looking to connect. However, constant small talk can be draining, especially when it seems never-ending. Sometimes, small talk can be a nice icebreaker, but continuous small talk is a chore.
Perpetual Optimism
Unrelenting optimism can be grating as much as we appreciate a positive outlook. There is such a thing as toxic positivity. We should acknowledge the challenges in life and express a range of emotions to make conversations more authentic.
Perfectly Arranged Desks
While an organized workspace is crucial and looks insta-worthy, desks that seem almost too perfect can create a sterile and uninviting atmosphere. A little bit of chaos can foster creativity. A rigidly organized desk is one nice thing that is not so nice!
Constant Apologies
Some people are in the habit of constantly saying sorry. Constant apologies, even for trivial matters, can become tiresome. Sometimes, letting minor things slide without needing a continuous string of apologies is okay. Not every little discretion needs a proper verbal apology. It’s best to let some things slide.
Overly Curated Social Media
In the age of social media, everyone is obsessed with a perfectly curated feed. Some people go even so far as to color-coordinate their feeds. While aesthetically pleasing Instagram feeds are enjoyable, constantly curated and filtered content can seem fake and unreal. It takes away the authenticity from the feed and is a nice thing that we don’t love. A little authenticity goes a long way.
Too Many Compliments
Some people love showering others with compliments. Surprisingly, excessive compliments can make one uncomfortable. A sincere compliment is appreciated, but an excess might leave us wondering about ulterior motives. Too many compliments can come across as false and pandering.
Infinite Cheerfulness
There is such a thing as toxic positivity. There is an increasing trend of always being positive to the point where it irritates everyone. Non-stop cheerfulness, although well-intentioned, can be exhausting. This practice is not appreciated, and we should all try to be more authentic.
Endless Etiquette Obsession
While manners are essential, an obsession with etiquette to the point of rigidity can stifle genuine connections. Sometimes, it’s okay to break the rules. Not all rules are meant to be followed, and that is especially true when it comes to mindless following of social etiquette. Let’s live a little and let us be our authentic selves.
Perfectly Behaved Children
While well-behaved children are admirable, the constant comparison to these ideal standards can create unnecessary pressure on parents. A little mischief is part of growing up. Ultimately, we must realize that kids will be kids; they will make messes, run, and be a little too loud, which is part and parcel of childhood.
No One Talks About These 10 Unspoken Truths of Early Retirement
Most of us work for forty while constantly thinking of retirement. But when we finally retire, we may have mixed feelings about our new life. While some realizations are pleasant, others are sobering.
But once you know what to expect, you can better prepare for your golden years. Here are unspoken truths about early retirement that you might have yet to hear.
No One Talks About These 10 Unspoken Truths of Early Retirement
A Retirement of Regrets? Here’s Why Most Think They’ll Run Out of Money and Live Uncomfortably
A new report unveils the retirement insecurities of retirees and workers 50 years of age and older, and it’s not pretty. Retirees and those approaching retirement fear declining finances and deteriorating health, leading to not-so-golden years.
A Retirement of Regrets? Here’s Why Most Think They’ll Run Out of Money and Live Uncomfortably
Americans From These States Want to Leave the Country The Most
Young Americans in certain U.S. states want to become expats more than others. A recent survey of Gen Z-ers revealed the top 10 states they want to leave the most for an international life. Here’s who they are and why they want to leave America.
Americans From These States Want to Leave the Country The Most
More Than Ever, Gen Z Wants to Leave America and Move To These 20 Countries
Almost three million people born in the United States live in different countries. More than in years past, young Americans are more likely to see a future for themselves outside the U.S. than within it. Here’s why and where they’d like to be living.
More Than Ever, Gen Z Wants to Leave America and Move To These 20 Countries
Gen Z Wants to Leave America But Not Those From These 10 States
Gen Z-ers in these ten states are the least interested in becoming expats. Who are they, and what has made them want to stay where they are?
Gen Z Wants to Leave America But Not Those From These 10 States
